And I’m not talking about tidying you room, I’m talking about things like going in beauty pagaents, taking private tennis lessons etc. Like what some parents do so they can live through their child if you know what I mean.

It can be on TV, but not an episode form a TV show or a movie. It has to be for real – from the news, from a sporting event or from real life.

Example: I arranged for my son to have his first tennis lesson at about age 8. When I came back to the court he was jumping up and down on the racket like a cartoon character.